Labor is a Journey. The preparation has often been elaborate, conscious and consuming. There is usually
an all-important ritual of Arrangement preceding the actual event. We call it nesting and Mother has moved about
in a final flurry of activity, taking care of all last details…clothes are washed, food fills the freezer, house is shipshape…all is in order.
Nesting is part of Embarkation. Mother senses that labor is soon. Perhaps contractions and the loss of a
bit of the cervical mucus has offered a hint that the journey is about to commence. Then it does begin and
Embarkation is also the time when a woman realizes that labor is truly here. Mother is excited, maybe a bit
nervous, concerned for the welfare of her loved ones having made sure that they will be well taken care of while
she is gone. As the Journey is launched she may call all her family to her to bid them goodbye or, depending on
her custom and constitution, she may silently take leave with her partner and companions. Usually, at this time
she alerts her chosen caretaker. If she is birthing at home, she notifies her midwife who may or may not arrive
immediately depending on the mother’s preference. If she is planning to give birth in a hospital or birthing center,
she may notify her chosen caregivers and remain at home until other changes occur. Often, moms wish to spend
time acclimatizing to the sensations the body offers before they actually connect with their birth attendants. Most
moms are aware that labor is still in early phases and are excited and managing their energy very well.
During this time the Mother often feels like talking and sharing impressions as she is pulled away from
ordinary reality. She may be chatty and relate information about each contraction or each sensation. She usually
stays centered as she is stretched and molded; her sensations become stronger, more intense, powerful. Most
Moms experience this as varying degrees of pain. The waves of contractions repeat with increasing intensity and
frequency and the Mother is swept toward the Unknown.
In modern parlance this time would be considered pre-labor and the latent stage of the First Stage of
Labor. Physically, the cervix is beginning to efface and dilate and this stage lasts until the Mother reaches 4 to 5
cm dilation. Contractions are usually 30 to 45 seconds long and 5 to 10 minutes apart. As Mother comes closer to
the chasm that separates her from ordinary reality, contractions build in intensity and become coordinated and
rhythmic. It becomes apparent that the Mother is being called away – she is less and less present in ordinary
reality with each successive contraction. Her chatty persona disappears, replaced with a growing seriousness.
As she feels herself pulled toward the Veil she will probably want to connect with her caregivers. She
may feel the need for the presence of the midwife or doctor because she understands that she will be leaving
ordinary reality, taking a definitive step into the unknown, and she wants her caregivers to be aware and ready to
witness.
Entering the Veil
(First Stage, Active Labor)
The Mother reaches a point in her traveling where it is time for her to go alone. The endorphins released
by her body during her embarking have begun to change her consciousness and she enters, more deeply, the realm
of the altered state. She travels to the edge of her normal reality, parts the Veil and goes beyond. The Veil is my
nomenclature for the curtain that separates ordinary reality from the deep altered state. Brain wave patterns have
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